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Coping With The Critics

By Brian Cormack Carr

When embarking on change, you may attract critics - those who appear to want to run your idea or dream into the ground. In this article, Brian Cormack Carr looks at the different types of critics you may encounter and how to handle them. More

How to Shift Career With a Bump: 5 Tips For Mums-To-Be

By Sarah Cooper

For mums-to-be! Sarah Cooper shares her tips on how to consider and actively change career during pregnancy. More

How to Tell Loved Ones About Your New Career Direction

By Andrea Perry

Just as you have to adapt to changes when making a career move, so do those close to you. They need time and support too! Andrea Perry suggests how best to introduce the idea of your career change to your friends and family. More

How to Cope with Negative Reactions from Those Close to You When Changing Career - Part 2

By Sarah Cooper

Sarah Cooper offers her thoughts on how to deal with the doubts and fears of those close to us when changing career. More

How to Cope with Negative Reactions from Those Close to You When Changing Career - Part 1

By Sab

Advice and tips on how to cope with negative reactions from your family and friends during your career change. More

What will people think? Why listening to others might waste 40 years of your life.

By Marianne Cantwell

Wouldn't it be great if everyone around you was supportive of your career shift? Unfortunately, the reality is that some of your family, friends or colleagues will advise against career change. They may not see why you want to leave where you are, or they might not approve of the career you think you want to move into.
This can have a big impact. When you're considering something as big and new as a career shift, hearing others voicing your own secret fears can be scary - for many it is the excuse they need not to make the shift.
Sound familiar? Here are 3 things to consider before you give in to those fears. More

I'm worried of the impact my career change will have on my wife and family

Careershifter question

By Anonymous

My 'dream' opportunity has presented itself, but pursuing this opportunity means potential negative impact on my wife - she is more sensitive to change and leaving the stability we are fortunate to currently enjoy.

ShiftDoctor answer

By Jessica McGrego... in ShiftSurgeries

Change by its very nature is scary. There is always an element of us that likes to maintain the status quo, even if we know intellectually that the change could be good for us or someone we love.
I am reminded of a client who took the risk and went for the dream with many of the same trepidations as you. Ultimately his partner had flourished in the light of his happiness, had been drawn forward by his fulfilment.

Read full case file


I'm worried of the impact my career change will have on my wife and family

Careershifter question

By Anonymous

My 'dream' opportunity has presented itself, but pursuing this opportunity means potential negative impact on my wife - she is more sensitive to change and leaving the stability we are fortunate to currently enjoy.

ShiftDoctor answer

By Jessica McGrego... in ShiftSurgeries

Change by its very nature is scary. There is always an element of us that likes to maintain the status quo, even if we know intellectually that the change could be good for us or someone we love.
I am reminded of a client who took the risk and went for the dream with many of the same trepidations as you. Ultimately his partner had flourished in the light of his happiness, had been drawn forward by his fulfilment.

Read full case file


Riding the Emotional Rollercoaster

By Devi Clark on 22 December 2006 at 09:40 in ShiftLogs

I've been on a rollercoaster since I last wrote. Up: Hooray, a job. How exciting. And just the sort of thing I wanted to do. Down: Oh, I must be a fraud. What will the people think? More

Where to find support and guidance

By Jessica McGrego...

Change of any kind needs support, that's a given. So setting up a suppot system is very important. here are suggestions on how to identify your 'true' supporters and a practical exercise on how to become your own champion supporter. More