
Running client business in an ad agency.
Training to be a psychotherapist.
Lack of emotional and intellectual fulfillment and interest in previous job.
Yes, definitely.
I don't really miss anything about the old job and particularly not the stress and dissatisfaction at feeling I wasn't doing anything worthwhile or making a difference.
Began to investigate what being a psychotherapist meant to decide if I really wanted to do it, persuaded the agency to make me redundant and then applied to various schools and universities to train in psychotherapy. Also then found a part-time job so I could continue to earn money as I trained.
The fear of the unknown and possible failure and letting go of the familiar.
Emotional support from my family and partner, information about being a psychotherapist from a therapist, redundancy money from the advertising agency.
That it is important to trust your instinct and follow your sense of what you want to do even if it does seem frightening and that the hardest step is taking the decision to make the change. Things tend to fall into place once you've set the process in motion but when standing at the start of the process, all you tend to see are the potential problems and pitfalls. There is also very rarely a perfect time to make a change; you just have to find a time that is 'good enough'.
Nothing.
Do your homework, work out if the change is something you are really passionate about or whether it's simply that you feel mildly bored or dissatisfied with your current situation and, if you are passionate about it, follow your instinct. You do need to be realistic and to make financial provision but most things are possible if you want them enough and you've been reasonably sensible in your planning.
By mm on 11 June 2007 at 11:11
What scientific education or training did you do before starting your psychotherapy course?
What is the attitude of your psychotherapist lectures and university/school towards mature students?